From The Book
There are no stagnant responsibilities … they are dynamic. So, your personal growth has to keep pace with it.
Since negative emotions always enjoy greater attention than the positive ones, most human beings sink into the depth of negative emotions with effortless ease. Alternatively, they are very shallow in experiencing their positive emotions. Take your own case and think about it!
We cannot expect anything from the world that we are not willing to expect from ourselves. Over a period of time, the world around you tends to become a carbon copy of you. Then for sure, you need to be a master-copy worth duplicating.