"A true student is like a sponge. Absorbing what goes on around him, filtering it, latching on to what he can hold. A student is self-critical and self-motivated, always trying to improve his understanding so that he can move on to the next topic, the next challenge. A real student is also his own teacher and his own critic. There is no room for ego there." (Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy)
Through trial and error, I learned my skills and knowledge as a parent on the job (I'm still trying). I made so many mistakes (and still do). But, almost all were valuable and helpful, though often painful. Most of our learning happens this way: unstructured and by chance. That's incidental learning, which is useful and effective.
Intentional learning is different. It is deliberate, structured, goal-oriented, and focused on acquiring knowledge or skills. In this context, you are usually drawing on BOTH your experience and the experience of others. Finishing school is where this type of learning ends for most people.
If you want an advantage over almost everyone, be intentional about your learning. Decide what you want to learn, and be deliberate. Learn from both your experiences and the experiences of others.
I hope you're good. Bye.
Take care, Kelly
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